{"id":45600,"date":"2024-12-19T21:09:44","date_gmt":"2024-12-19T21:09:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buildersmovement.org\/?p=45600"},"modified":"2025-01-12T21:11:38","modified_gmt":"2025-01-12T21:11:38","slug":"why-internal-reflection-key-reduce-political-toxicity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buildersmovement.org\/2024\/12\/19\/why-internal-reflection-key-reduce-political-toxicity\/","title":{"rendered":"2025 and Beyond: Why Reflection Is Key to Reducing Political Toxicity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The start of a new year is a natural time for reflection \u2014 for thinking about the past year and how we might approach the future.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is that a lot of what we send you about our toxic divides via <\/span><a href=\"\/builders\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">our newsletter<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is reflective and introspective in nature \u2014 focused on how we think about the people and events around us.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At the same time, many Americans have serious concerns and fears about the future \u2014 and that includes many people in this movement of ours. This can lead some people to wonder, \u201cWhen there are so many real-world things to worry about, how does introspective work help us?\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people may even be pessimistic and think, \u201cThese \u2018let\u2019s-all-get-along\u2019 kumbaya messages aren\u2019t doing much.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s natural to wonder how \u201cinner work\u201d leads to changes in the real world, so let\u2019s talk about why it matters.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>We All Play a Role in Reducing Toxicity \u2014 or Increasing It<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When so many of us have <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/startswith.us\/2024\/01\/25\/distorted-lens-how-perceptions-of-other-side-drive-toxic-polarization\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">extremely pessimistic views<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of our political opponents, that creates demand for more polarized and divisive approaches. Political leaders, activists, and pundits don\u2019t exist in a vacuum. The approaches taken by influential people are affected by the forces and pressures in society \u2014 by all of us.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Put another way: Insulting and divisive behaviors by political leaders will only be successful if there is sufficient support for those behaviors by enough of the public.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can help us see that <\/span><b><i>we all play a role in making our culture either more toxic \u2014 or less toxic.<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The interactions that millions of us have across the country, every day, is what helps form the broader political culture. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We may not be as influential as a leader or celebrity or journalist, but all together, we exert a lot of power.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>With Hearts \u201cAt Peace,\u201d We Reduce Us-Vs-Them Thinking<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The book <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/arbinger.com\/store\/the-anatomy-of-peace\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Anatomy of Peace<\/span><\/i><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> talks about the difference between our hearts being \u201cat war\u201d versus \u201cat peace.\u201d If we have contempt for our opponents, that contempt will make itself known; that will be what our opponents focus on, much more than our disagreements about issues. Us-vs-them hostility then leads to more extreme and hardened stances, and less willingness to compromise.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many people in our community have told us that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/startswith.us\/2024\/11\/13\/why-understanding-other-side-more-important-than-ever\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">understanding their fellow citizens better<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> has reduced their contempt and helped them engage in more productive ways. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those are internal changes that have powerful real-world effects.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Imagine how such changes happening en masse, for millions of people, might shift our overall political culture. We\u2019d still of course have major disagreements \u2014 but with less us-versus-them thinking our disagreements would be less polarized and <a href=\"https:\/\/news.harvard.edu\/gazette\/story\/2024\/03\/why-are-we-so-divided-zero-sum-thinking-is-part-of-it\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">zero-sum<\/a> in nature.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Reflection Helps Us Understand Others<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often, when we\u2019re asked to imagine \u201cdemocracy\u201d we\u2019ll reach for images of people doing things: protesting, voting, organizing, and the like. We don\u2019t tend to imagine someone sitting there thinking. <\/span><b>And yet without thinking, action doesn\u2019t mean anything.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talisse writes that understanding our fellow citizens\u2019 views is vital. But because few of us have the time to talk with our fellow citizens to understand their views, solitary introspection is important:\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2026Citizens must also <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">imagine <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">their way into the outlooks of their fellow citizens; they must endeavor to see things from <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">their <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">points of view. All of this means that citizens must be <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reflective<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Responsible citizenship is partly a matter of engaging in certain kinds of thinking. Democracy happens in the streets, but it also goes on <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">inside <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of us.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>You Are Already Making a Difference<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One way to look at this is: If you\u2019re invested in this cause, <\/span><b><i>you\u2019re already making a difference<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You are making a difference every day in the things you do and say \u2014 and in the things you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">don\u2019t<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> do and say.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are making a difference in the way you move through this world.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Building a Movement for Change<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And of course there are other things we and others in this movement do that go beyond introspective work. With projects like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/rankings.buildersmovement.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Power Rankings<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/startswith.us\/2024\/04\/02\/pbs-highlights-our-citizen-solutions-work-on-gun-rights-and-safety\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Citizen Solutions<\/span><\/i><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, we aim to inspire citizens, activists, and leaders to push for respectful and empathetic approaches and solutions \u2014 without <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/startswith.us\/2024\/03\/13\/political-passion-at-odds-with-depolarization\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">compromising their values<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. (And we know that can even be a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/startswith.us\/2024\/09\/18\/depolarizing-messages-help-candidates-research-less-toxic-campaigns\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">winning strategy for politicians<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This work starts small, inside each of us. But even small things, en masse, can have big impacts. Ripples can quickly become waves. Big changes do happen in society, sometimes more quickly than we expect.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As we start this year, let\u2019s commit to improving both our inner world and the outer world. Let\u2019s all commit to creating more ripples \u2014 and, when we see the chance, larger waves, too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Want to stay in the loop to overcome our toxic divides? <a href=\"\/builders\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sign up for our newsletter<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The start of a new year is a natural time for reflection \u2014 for thinking about the past year and how we might approach the future.\u00a0 The truth is that a lot of what we send you about our toxic divides via our newsletter is reflective and introspective in nature \u2014 focused on how we&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":45595,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"collection_feed":[],"type_feed":[77],"class_list":["post-45600","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - 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